Friday, May 23, 2014

Limitations are a Gift

The Artisan Soul by Erwin McManus


Ch. 6:  “Canvas: The Context of Art”
Every artist uses limitations to create.

Think of someone who has overcome personal challenges/limitations  (Examples in book are—
Phil Hansen (p153)—Phil was an artist that developed a tremor in his hand.  After being devastated and thinking of quitting, his doctor said “embrace the shake”.  He continued his art, but with different materials.
Joshua Prager (p154)—a prowess in language as a journalist.  Those who hear him, or read his work, may not be aware that after a bus accident in Jerusalem, he was left a hemiplegic at age 19. 
Temple Grandin, born with autism, developed a revolutionary and “humane” method of slaughtering cattle.  (See the movie “Temple Grandin”)

LIMITATIONS
What’s the difference between “limitations” and “boundaries”?  We thought of limitations as immoveable and imposed upon us, and boundaries as moveable and self-imposed.  God can use both for our good.

p. 145  “One of the great misconceptions about creativity is that it only exists where there are no rules, no boundaries, and no limitations.” 
p. 146  “Every medium carries within itself inherent limitations, and every artist also comes with limitations...Creativity not only happens within boundaries and limitations, but in fact it is dependent on those limitations.  The true artist sees boundaries not as the materials denied to us but as the material that allows us to harness and focus our full creative potential.”
Being a mom (our medium) does carry limitations, and we also have limitations.  We are dependent on our limitations because they allow us to focus on this season of our life, and to live it creatively and fully.  (John 10:10 “I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.”)  We get to decide how to utilize our canvases as tools (i.e., how can I help my son play well, and not just veg in front of the TV? (nothing against TV!)  How can I make nutritious meals?  How can I schedule the day for the best possible outcome?  How can I create a positive environment in my home? etc)

p. 149  “The perceived limitation is in the medium, but the actual limitation is in the artist.  Everyone begins with the same material; it’s what we do with the material that matters...We aren’t limited because we have limitations; we are limited because we haven’t embraced them...What makes you an artist (in this case, our role as a mom) is what you do with the material you have been given with which to create.”
p. 151  “The colors we use to paint our own lives splash all over the souls of those who are close to us.”
Have you observed other moms/grandmas/aunts and noticed that they enjoy their life and role as a mom?  Did you find yourself wanting to be like them?  What is it about them that you want to imitate?  How are they using their limitations to enjoy life?

p. 154  (about Joshua Prager) “I was mesmerized as he spoke, hearing his personal story and his reminder that our limitations are often not what we perceive them to be...limitations are often perceptions and not realities.  It all depends on how we allow those limitations to restrain us or refocus us.”
When we have a bad day (or week!), do we allow the definition of that day/week define our attitude? Our thoughts? Who we are? Who our kids are?  Don’t allow negative thoughts (from self or Satan) to bring us down.  Fight back with truth from scripture.

p. 158  “Even the God of the Scriptures embraces limitations, which is kind of unexpected for a God who is all-powerful, all-knowing, and all-present...The creative act has within it inherent limitations.  The moment we create, we establish boundaries and limitations.” 
When God created the universe, one day at a time, each day brought additional limitations.  By the 7th day, He needed to create man “to fit the material already created.” (p. 160)
Before we became a momma, we were single.  Then we married (a limitation).  Then we had our child (a limitation).  The moment we become a momma, we were redefined with new boundaries and limitations—but every limitation was something to celebrate!

p. 161  “...God’s most creative act, rescuing all humanity, could be accomplished only when he emptied himself of his limitlessness and took on the limitations of being human...He understood that...to save humanity, he would need to become a man...”
p. 162  “...if our lives are to be our masterpieces...these boundaries are not to be despised but to be embraced...”
God embraced his limitations as a human in order to save us.  Thank you, Jesus!
Our limitations in this season will result in creating a beautiful human being with our love. 
Do I find myself resenting my limitations?  How can I embrace them, and mean it?  and experience happiness each day? 
p. 168  “...there is an undeniable relationship between happiness and resilience.  People who enjoy life make life more enjoyable for others.”

What is the height, length and width of art?
p. 165  “...our relationships, accomplishments, and well-being.”

“Everything begins with relationships.  We humans are designed for relationship and find our greatest fulfillment in intimacy.”
How do you experience intimacy with others?  Your husband?  Your children?

p. 166  “...we’re all driven to become.  The human spirit is designed for progress...we should leave the world better than we found it.”
How can I wake up with this attitude and live it each day?  Intentionally try for one act of goodness each day (at least)!

p. 167  “...well-being reflects how we have cared for the health of our soul...Well-being is not a journey toward perfection, but a journey toward wholeness...it is not a destination; it is the realization that the journey itself brings fulfillment and even creates happiness.”
Where are you at on the journey toward wholeness? 
What brings you fulfillment and creates happiness?  Do it—a lot!

Accept my limitations as a time to intentionally focus on my children and husband during this season of life.

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